Friday, April 3, 2015

The Nichols Grandchildren Share Their Gratitude

With Christopher, Pete's first grandchild, at Ala Moana Beach Park in 1994. 

Grandad was an incredibly special man in our lives and in this world. He cared about the ones he loved the most, and our well-being, more than anything else. His ongoing support and amazing attitude were unmatched. He was always the biggest supporter and champion in my life. Immediately after Mom told me the news, I heard Grandad say to me in my heart, “It’s alright Chris, just get back to work,” with cheer in his voice.


Christopher with Pete and Betsy at the Outrigger Canoe Club in 1994.

I am thinking of the quote from Teddy Roosevelt: "The Man in the Arena." That really does describe what Grandad is all about. I am so thankful to have had him in my life, and I will strive to be more like the courageous man that he was. I write this in past tense, but that is actually not the case at all. He is with us now; the Grandad we all love is back. We can talk to him whenever we want. I have already been doing that without even dialing the phone.           - Christopher Nichols, 22 


Reading to Alison in Honolulu in 1994.
Alison's list of favorite memories with her grandfather:
  • "What’s the water temperature?" “Toasty warm, sir!”
  • Boogie boarding at the beach
  • Marathon Monopoly games
  • Hearing instructions to wear "play clothes"
  • Riding around Coronado with him on my blue bike
  • Making lemonade with Betsy at their house
  • The Jordan-Riddle family reunion trip to Molokai and Maui in Hawaii
  • Excursions to the Hotel del Coronado for ice cream
  • Swimming in La Jolla cove
  • Magic and talent shows in their back yard
  • Taking a train trip to San Francisco, and walking across the Golden Gate Bridge 
  • Paddle boating and choosing yachts "to buy" in San Diego Bay
  • My high school graduation                  -Alison Nichols, 20

Pete's health was declining when he and Betsy made the supreme effort to see Alison graduate from Punahou School in 2013 with approximately 9000 people in Blaisdell Arena. After 20 years of traveling to Hawaii to participate in sporting events, beach activities, and school functions, this would be his last visit. 


Alison, 2nd from left, walking past her grandfather at graduation in 2013.






Thursday, April 2, 2015

Reflections from a Moot Court Partner


Pete graduated from the University of Chicago Law School in 1966, after serving four years in the Navy.  Former classmate and Moot Court partner, Judge Bob Cordek, recalls simulated court proceedings, the bar exam, and circling back to an old friend for help: 

I was his Moot Court partner in our first year at the University of Chicago Law School.  We teamed up because we happened to sit next to each other in a couple of classes, but we got to know each other through Moot Court.  We must have been a good team, because we won our Moot Court session.  

A little note about inflation.  One day Pete and I were discussing what income level would satisfy us.  This would have been about 1965.  He said $25,000 would satisfy him, and I agreed.  I think, as judges, we both were probably making about that in 1965 dollars.  

I saw him when we both were going into the room to take the Illinois bar exam, and I asked Pete what he had in his large briefcase, because I knew we couldn’t bring any books or papers into the exam room.  He opened the case and showed me a large, puffy pillow which he brought to sit on because he had heard that the chairs we would sit on for the exam were uncomfortable.  I didn’t bring a pillow, and had to endure the hard seats. 

Several years ago I was contacted by a  family member who was living in California and was having some legal problems.  I knew nothing about California law or procedure, and thought Pete might be able to help me advise my relative.  He was very helpful, and the matter was resolved applying his advice.

I have something else in common with Pete.  In high school and college I swam breast stroke competitively. 

Pete was a special guy.  I am sure everyone who knew him will miss him.



Monday, March 30, 2015

Peter E. Riddle Obituary


Peter Riddle, a retired judge of the California Superior Court for the County of San Diego and a former U.S. Navy SEAL, died in Coronado March 4 from the effects of Lewy body dementia. He was 76.

Born in Chicago, Riddle graduated from Yale in 1960, where he played tight end for the football team. “He was much admired and a big star,” says his college classmate Barry Schaller, a retired Connecticut Supreme Court justice who teaches at Yale Law School. “Our classmates remember his effort and courage on the football field. He was always so modest, unassuming, a good listener, and always engaged in what others were saying.”

As a member of the Naval Reserve Officers Training Corps, Riddle was first assigned to a destroyer. He then graduated with Underwater Demolition Basic Training Class 28 in 1962, and worked as a platoon officer with UDT-12. Following his separation from active duty, he earned a J.D. from the University of Chicago Law School in 1966. Soon Riddle returned to active duty with SEAL Team ONE.

“Seeing thousands of teenage draftees being sent to Vietnam, Pete thought it wrong that he, a trained, older Reserve officer should stay behind,” recalls Rear Adm. Cathal Flynn, a friend and fellow member of SEAL Team ONE. “He didn’t see there was a choice to be made. He stepped up. He told the SEAL team’s commanding officer that he wanted to serve his country, but not at a desk. He requested deployment to Vietnam. The Commanding Officer, who knew and valued Pete, so ordered it.”


Is that a knife between his teeth? Of course it is.


Riddle engaged in classified special operations in Vietnam, for which his detachment later received the U.S. Presidential Unit Citation. After the war, he continued to serve in the Naval Reserve, retiring with the rank of Captain.

Following a brief stint working as an advance man for Gov. Nelson Rockefeller’s presidential primary campaign in 1968, Riddle settled in Coronado, where he resided for the next 46 years. There he raised two daughters with his first wife, Sandra Justice, served on the Coronado City Council, and started a private law practice in San Diego. He was appointed to the bench in 1987.

Riddle’s assignments in San Diego County courts included Probate, Civil Litigation, Juvenile Delinquency, and Juvenile Dependency. He said he took his greatest satisfaction from his work with cases helping neglected and abused children in Juvenile Dependency.

“Judge Riddle dedicated his life to public service, both as a distinguished Naval officer and a distinguished jurist,” says retired San Diego Superior Court judge William Pate, a longtime friend and colleague. “He sought out those assignments that most heavily impacted families in times of stress. As a Juvenile Court judge, he spent years working with families and juveniles in trouble. His decisions always followed a thorough review of the matter. He exercised sound judgment and compassion for those appearing before him. He was the perfect example of what every judge should strive to be.” Riddle continued working part-time in Juvenile Dependency for a few years after his official retirement in 2000.

An avid sportsman, Riddle maintained a high level of fitness by competing in running, swimming, and triathlon events over four decades. Elizabeth Jordan, his wife of 20 years and an International Swimming Hall of Fame inductee, shared his passion for U.S. Masters Swimming races. His self-described “workmanlike” performances never permitted him to keep pace with her. This provided a perpetual source of self-effacing amusement for Riddle, despite his accomplishments in that arena.

Loved by all who knew him for his gracious manner and pithy aphorisms, Riddle’s humor and resolve suffused colleagues and friends in the courtroom, the military, swimming pool, and ocean. Those who benefited most, however, were his family members, who relished his full attention on every matter from education to athletic events to sand castle construction.

His survivors include his wife, Elizabeth Jordan, of Coronado, daughters Katherine Nichols, of Boston, Mass., and Susan Whiting, of Coppell, Texas, and brother, William Riddle, of San Francisco. His eldest brother, Hugh Riddle, Jr., passed away in 1996. With Jordan, a former UCSD Humanities professor, Riddle enjoyed a blended family that also included four stepchildren and 11 grandchildren. He left an indelible impression on all of their lives.

A Celebration of Life will take place at 11 A.M. Sunday, April 12, at the Skyline Terrace, Coronado Island Marriott Resort, 2000 2nd St., Coronado, CA.


Thursday, March 26, 2015

The Houlihan Grandchildren Remember 10K Runs, Scary Masks, and Their Best Customer


Betsy's daughter and Pete's stepdaughter, Myla Houlihan, has three daughters Pete adored. They are pictured with him at the beach, above. Below, they share some of their favorite memories about their experiences with him. 



One of my favorite memories of Pete was when he came to Boulder and ran the Bolder Boulder 10K race with me when I was 8 years old. He ran with me the entire way, but he let me set the pace, always staying just a few steps behind. We ran into the stadium together, although he let me cross the finish line first and we celebrated together on Memorial Day!   -Emily Houlihan, 22



One of my favorite memories of Pete is jumping out of the bushes at the Coronado house to "scare" him as he came home from work. My sisters and I were wearing animal masks that we got at the San Diego Zoo earlier that day. I remember watching for his car when he got home,  racing out with my monkey mask, and then waiting quietly behind the bushes, trying not to giggle. In retrospect, he may have heard or seen us behind the bushes that day, yet he still walked purposefully up the path and then dropped his bags and feigned surprise as we excitedly jumped out from our hiding spots. Pete was always a willing participant in our playful games, and it always ended with a good laugh.   -Erin Houlihan, 20



One of my favorite memories of Pete and Grandma was when we set up a pretend "store" in their back office.  After surveying their pantry, we made a detailed list with menu items and prices, and then opened the window to the patio to serve our "customers". Pete was always our most loyal customer — as soon as he got home from work, he would rush out to the patio and order some lemonade and brownies and pay with change. He was very complimentary and always expressed his gratitude, eagerly asking when the store would be open next. 
- Meg Houlihan, 17


Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Brothers: 1941 and 2014

When they weren't turning furniture into boats, Bill and Pete Riddle looked cherubic. A Chicago newspaper featured the boys in 1941; the caption that appeared is retyped below. 


These little boys are the sons of Mr. and Mrs. Hugh Riddle. The older boy is William, commonly known as "Billy," and the younger is Emmons, who is called "Petey." Both have blond hair and brown eyes. Five-year-old Billy's greatest joy is ice boating on Fox Lake, and he and Petey, who will be 3 years old April 2, on days when they must stay indoors, upset the house by turning all the furniture into boats and playing they are sailing on the ice. Billy likes to sail on the lake and both he and Petey get a thrill out of watching their Daddy fly an airplane. They have an older brother, Hugh, who will be 9 on June 1. 


Seventy-three years later, during a 2014 visit in Coronado, photographer and family member Ken Corr captured the two brothers  — who had lost Hugh 18 years earlier — in a quiet moment at the beach. Said Corr: "I had to work on [the picture] a bit to remove various extraneous visual distractions that were in the original image in order to bring into focus the two brothers, deep in conversation with each other — most likely their last one-on-one in person interaction."

It was, indeed.



Monday, March 23, 2015

Celebration of Life: New Venue and Time

Please join us for Pete's Celebration of Life!

Due to Pete's popularity and multifaceted life as family man, retired judge, Navy Captain, swimmer, and runner, his family decided to alter the venue to welcome the many people who meant so much to him. 


When: 11 a.m. on Sunday, April 12, 2015


Where: Coronado Island Marriott Resort
                 Skyline Terrace
                 2000 Second St., Coronado, CA 92118
                 (619) 435-3000


Details: Look for the white tent adjacent to the bay, aptly titled "Pete Riddle's Celebration of Life."


Parking: Complimentary self-parking at the resort. You will need to take a ticket from the machine to enter the hotel property. No need to bring that ticket into Pete's event; leave it in your car in a safe place. Upon check-in, you will receive a separate, validated card — a green "chaser" — to use when you exit. In other words, when you leave, you will insert your original ticket into the automated system, followed by the validated ticket you received at the event, for a seamless departure. 


What to Bring: Yourselves and your stories of Pete!  





Sunday, March 22, 2015

Lane 2 Original


Pete's recreational pursuits meant alarm clocks buzzing at 4 a.m. most mornings, but he relished his tarp duties at "0-dark-thirty." Swimming, running, and weightlifting brought him to the La Jolla campus at least five days per week. More important than the training, however, was the sense of community he enjoyed there with his wife, Betsy Jordan, and his comrades in lycra. 

Here's a note Ronald "Sickie" Marcikic, Director and Head Coach of UCSD Masters Sports, sent to his athletes:

It is with great sadness that I have to let you know of the passing of a close friend, fellow swimmer (breaststroker exactly, although he might not always admit it), Lane 2 original, Navy SEAL, and the nicest person I've ever met...Pete Riddle. 

Pete was in a care facility on Coronado with Lewy body dementia. His health was declining over the past months, but he maintained a bright demeanor and delicate hold on life with his wife, Betsy, through the entire ordeal. I have known Pete for over 32 years. His sly take on life as a lawyer and judge was both personable and endearing. He always spoke kindly of everyone he met, and was always the first to offer his support to anyone in need.

***

In 2004 while in their mid-60s, Pete and Betsy completed the Maui Channel Swim — SOLO. Their 10-mile journey from Lanai to Maui is chronicled below by fellow channel swimmer Peggy Leong:


And just because they didn't see this guy doesn't mean he wasn't there! (Note: Not considered a comrade in lycra.)