Monday, March 30, 2015

Peter E. Riddle Obituary


Peter Riddle, a retired judge of the California Superior Court for the County of San Diego and a former U.S. Navy SEAL, died in Coronado March 4 from the effects of Lewy body dementia. He was 76.

Born in Chicago, Riddle graduated from Yale in 1960, where he played tight end for the football team. “He was much admired and a big star,” says his college classmate Barry Schaller, a retired Connecticut Supreme Court justice who teaches at Yale Law School. “Our classmates remember his effort and courage on the football field. He was always so modest, unassuming, a good listener, and always engaged in what others were saying.”

As a member of the Naval Reserve Officers Training Corps, Riddle was first assigned to a destroyer. He then graduated with Underwater Demolition Basic Training Class 28 in 1962, and worked as a platoon officer with UDT-12. Following his separation from active duty, he earned a J.D. from the University of Chicago Law School in 1966. Soon Riddle returned to active duty with SEAL Team ONE.

“Seeing thousands of teenage draftees being sent to Vietnam, Pete thought it wrong that he, a trained, older Reserve officer should stay behind,” recalls Rear Adm. Cathal Flynn, a friend and fellow member of SEAL Team ONE. “He didn’t see there was a choice to be made. He stepped up. He told the SEAL team’s commanding officer that he wanted to serve his country, but not at a desk. He requested deployment to Vietnam. The Commanding Officer, who knew and valued Pete, so ordered it.”


Is that a knife between his teeth? Of course it is.


Riddle engaged in classified special operations in Vietnam, for which his detachment later received the U.S. Presidential Unit Citation. After the war, he continued to serve in the Naval Reserve, retiring with the rank of Captain.

Following a brief stint working as an advance man for Gov. Nelson Rockefeller’s presidential primary campaign in 1968, Riddle settled in Coronado, where he resided for the next 46 years. There he raised two daughters with his first wife, Sandra Justice, served on the Coronado City Council, and started a private law practice in San Diego. He was appointed to the bench in 1987.

Riddle’s assignments in San Diego County courts included Probate, Civil Litigation, Juvenile Delinquency, and Juvenile Dependency. He said he took his greatest satisfaction from his work with cases helping neglected and abused children in Juvenile Dependency.

“Judge Riddle dedicated his life to public service, both as a distinguished Naval officer and a distinguished jurist,” says retired San Diego Superior Court judge William Pate, a longtime friend and colleague. “He sought out those assignments that most heavily impacted families in times of stress. As a Juvenile Court judge, he spent years working with families and juveniles in trouble. His decisions always followed a thorough review of the matter. He exercised sound judgment and compassion for those appearing before him. He was the perfect example of what every judge should strive to be.” Riddle continued working part-time in Juvenile Dependency for a few years after his official retirement in 2000.

An avid sportsman, Riddle maintained a high level of fitness by competing in running, swimming, and triathlon events over four decades. Elizabeth Jordan, his wife of 20 years and an International Swimming Hall of Fame inductee, shared his passion for U.S. Masters Swimming races. His self-described “workmanlike” performances never permitted him to keep pace with her. This provided a perpetual source of self-effacing amusement for Riddle, despite his accomplishments in that arena.

Loved by all who knew him for his gracious manner and pithy aphorisms, Riddle’s humor and resolve suffused colleagues and friends in the courtroom, the military, swimming pool, and ocean. Those who benefited most, however, were his family members, who relished his full attention on every matter from education to athletic events to sand castle construction.

His survivors include his wife, Elizabeth Jordan, of Coronado, daughters Katherine Nichols, of Boston, Mass., and Susan Whiting, of Coppell, Texas, and brother, William Riddle, of San Francisco. His eldest brother, Hugh Riddle, Jr., passed away in 1996. With Jordan, a former UCSD Humanities professor, Riddle enjoyed a blended family that also included four stepchildren and 11 grandchildren. He left an indelible impression on all of their lives.

A Celebration of Life will take place at 11 A.M. Sunday, April 12, at the Skyline Terrace, Coronado Island Marriott Resort, 2000 2nd St., Coronado, CA.


Thursday, March 26, 2015

The Houlihan Grandchildren Remember 10K Runs, Scary Masks, and Their Best Customer


Betsy's daughter and Pete's stepdaughter, Myla Houlihan, has three daughters Pete adored. They are pictured with him at the beach, above. Below, they share some of their favorite memories about their experiences with him. 



One of my favorite memories of Pete was when he came to Boulder and ran the Bolder Boulder 10K race with me when I was 8 years old. He ran with me the entire way, but he let me set the pace, always staying just a few steps behind. We ran into the stadium together, although he let me cross the finish line first and we celebrated together on Memorial Day!   -Emily Houlihan, 22



One of my favorite memories of Pete is jumping out of the bushes at the Coronado house to "scare" him as he came home from work. My sisters and I were wearing animal masks that we got at the San Diego Zoo earlier that day. I remember watching for his car when he got home,  racing out with my monkey mask, and then waiting quietly behind the bushes, trying not to giggle. In retrospect, he may have heard or seen us behind the bushes that day, yet he still walked purposefully up the path and then dropped his bags and feigned surprise as we excitedly jumped out from our hiding spots. Pete was always a willing participant in our playful games, and it always ended with a good laugh.   -Erin Houlihan, 20



One of my favorite memories of Pete and Grandma was when we set up a pretend "store" in their back office.  After surveying their pantry, we made a detailed list with menu items and prices, and then opened the window to the patio to serve our "customers". Pete was always our most loyal customer — as soon as he got home from work, he would rush out to the patio and order some lemonade and brownies and pay with change. He was very complimentary and always expressed his gratitude, eagerly asking when the store would be open next. 
- Meg Houlihan, 17


Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Brothers: 1941 and 2014

When they weren't turning furniture into boats, Bill and Pete Riddle looked cherubic. A Chicago newspaper featured the boys in 1941; the caption that appeared is retyped below. 


These little boys are the sons of Mr. and Mrs. Hugh Riddle. The older boy is William, commonly known as "Billy," and the younger is Emmons, who is called "Petey." Both have blond hair and brown eyes. Five-year-old Billy's greatest joy is ice boating on Fox Lake, and he and Petey, who will be 3 years old April 2, on days when they must stay indoors, upset the house by turning all the furniture into boats and playing they are sailing on the ice. Billy likes to sail on the lake and both he and Petey get a thrill out of watching their Daddy fly an airplane. They have an older brother, Hugh, who will be 9 on June 1. 


Seventy-three years later, during a 2014 visit in Coronado, photographer and family member Ken Corr captured the two brothers  — who had lost Hugh 18 years earlier — in a quiet moment at the beach. Said Corr: "I had to work on [the picture] a bit to remove various extraneous visual distractions that were in the original image in order to bring into focus the two brothers, deep in conversation with each other — most likely their last one-on-one in person interaction."

It was, indeed.